Genes or Socialization --- what percentage of each makes one who they are?
I am leaning towards 2/3 Genes and 1/3 Socialization----up from my previous thoughts of 1/2 and 1/2
Understanding given our OWN circumstances, we are all doing the best we can do. Is this true? Do you think we are ALL doing the best we can do?
Flexible --- Are you flexible? Is it important to be flexible?
Rigid --- Are you rigid? Is this a bad thing?
Update as I am told --- not because I know for sure -- Well, some of it I know for sure but what Amber says I am not so sure about----
Michael Brandt, old friend of Amber's , called Randy to let him know Amber had texted him a couple of days ago her cancer was in remission--
Must be nice ---- treat your body with no respect --- treatment???? ---- and you are magically in remission.
Amber arrested for DUI last night. Bartender called the police after Amber left the prememis . ( Don't know what the situation was that caused bartender to call police ) Police stopped her. She started to refuse to breathe but was told her license would be automatically suspended for a year. She then did breathe. Arrested, car impounded, night in jail, released.
Message on Randy's cell from detective in Pinetop --- County Prosecutor is choosing to prosecute the house destruction case.
Amber is now not willing to give Maria temporary custody --- Imagine that---
Who knows what will happen or the best thing to happen or what anyone would want to happen ---- besides making this all be not what it is ---
We each approach it all in such different directions:
Randy and I
from a Mars and Venus outlook --
from a Grandfather and Grandmother outlook---
from broken hearted outlooks ---
from a father and mother outlook ---
from a husband and wife outlook ---
from an individual outlook---
and knowing, through it all, the most important of the couple outlooks above is our marriage outlook --- because we are the union --- because we fell in love with each other's individual outlooks.